Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Teaching and Adolescents'- 25 Things to Know



25 More Things You Should Know That Influence Adolescents’
Success in School and Life

1.     The diversity among adolescents is staggering. In the human lifespan, the period we define as adolescence (ages 13-19) is characterized by the widest range of differences between on human being and another.

2.     Timing and pacing of adolescent maturation is uneven and unpredictable. Although social, emotional, physical, intellectual, and identity aspects of development influence each other, they each have a different timetable within the same individual. In addition, sudden changes and shifts in kids’ personalities, behaviors, attitudes, and habits are normal.

3.     The second most significant growth spurt in the brain (the first is between birth and age three) occurs during adolescence. The synapses in the brain can double in number in one year of adolescence. The overproduction of synapses can also make it difficult to keep track of multiple thoughts and retrieve information quickly. The good news is that teens can re-pattern behavior, learn new skills and habits, and make significant changes in how they operate day to day. The bad news is that habits, preferences, and patterns of behavior get hardwired as kids move through adolescence. If you’re a couch potato at age 15, you’re likely to be a couch potato for the rest of your life unless there is a compelling, dramatic, transformative experience that motivates and inspires you to change an ingrained habit.
       
        Think of the teenage brain from a “use it or lose it” perspective: by age 18 the brain starts losing neurons that aren’t hardwired by experience- it’s call “pruning,” and it allows the brain to function more efficiently. The brain nourishes what it uses and tosses away what it doesn’t. You can’t retrofit the brain in adulthood.

4.     The frontal cortex (frontal lobe) is one of the last parts of the brain to mature. It’s the CEO of the brain, in charge of executive functions like planning, organizing, setting priorities, making sound and informed judgments, assessing risk, managing and defusing intense and out-of-control emotions. The brain’s circuit board is not completely installed until the mid twenties. There’s a good reason why adolescents do not gain full adult status until they are 21. For most adolescents, the cortex is asleep at the switch some or even most of the time. Consequently, adolescents’ judgment is highly erratic and they are capable of making both extraordinary good judgments and really bad ones.




5.     The corpus callosum, which is linked to self-awareness and intelligence, continues to develop until the mid twenties, hence a lot of kids are late bloomers.

6.     Serotonin (a neurotransmitter) is responsible for inducing relaxation, regulating moods, and regulating sleep. Generally, women have 20-40% higher levels of serotonin than men. However, during the teen years, levels of serotonin decline for both sexes, creating conditions that can increase impulsive behavior.

7.     Under the influence of enormous hormonal changes, teenagers rely more on the emotional center (amygdale) in the limbic system than on the reason center in the cortex. The amygdale is revved up, in hyper drive, and intense feelings like anger, fear, and elation are normal and frequent. This center gets activated when “your button gets pushed,” and it captures and stores emotionally intense memories. This is one reason why trauma can impede and interrupt learning.

8.     Kids learn best in a state of “relaxed alertness” or “unanxious anticipation.” Emotional turmoil can hijack kids to the land of “not-learn.” Transitions that help students shift gears and get “brain ready” for learning are crucial.

9.     Strong emotional connections with the teacher, the subject, or the task (whether positive or negative) generate learning with more “sticking power” related to memory, retention, comprehension, and application. The good news is that tapping into students’ excitement, anticipation, laughter, surprise, and sense of well-being and competency increases learning. The bad news is that negative feelings about a teacher or specific type of learning task will stay with student’s way beyond the initial event and influence all future experiences in a similar setting or context.

10.   Learning preferences (students’ likes and dislikes, their fears and passions, what comes easy, what’s hard) tend to harden an narrow during adolescence, especially if students’ educational experience includes more of the same old, same old.

11.   Challenging and complex human contact and relationships stimulate the brain. Teens watch an average of 23 hours of TV per week, more time than they spend interacting with friends, teachers, and family. Unlike previous generations, adolescents today spend far more time alone (with their separate phones, TVs, computers, etc.) and far less time with adults outside school.

12.   New experiences with an element of risk, thrill, uncertainty, or danger stimulate neurons that release dopamine, which produces feelings of intense pleasure. So how can we package the intense experiences that kids crave minus the life-threatening price tag? Physical play, sports, dance, and movement of all sorts harness and release positive emotions and serve as a healthy outlet for emotional and sexual energy.






13.   Between 10% and 15% adolescents experience mild to severe depression. This means that at any given time three to four kids might be walking into the classroom depressed. There does appear to be a higher incidence of mild depression (dysthemia) among underserved students who live in families who experience poverty or serial family crises. Fewer than one in five depressed adolescents receive treatment.

14.   Teens’ biological clocks are different. Melatonin levels are elevated in the early part of the school day—the brain is saying, “It’s nighttime.” At the end of the day, teens are not chemically ready for sleep until around 11pm. Yet teens require more sleep than adults (eight to nine hours) and hormones critical to growth and maturation are released during sleep. Sleep is brain food. Sleep deprivation reduces REM sleep and can result in memory and judgment impairment, irritability, and mild depression.

15.   Researchers have arrived at some questionable conclusions about girls being shortchanged in schools. During adolescence, increasing numbers of girls do struggle with issues of self-image, assertiveness, and social pressure and acceptance. Yet, on almost every measure, girls do better in school and experience better life choices during young adulthood than boys. Boys tend to have more positive images of themselves, greater assertiveness, and higher perceptions of social acceptance. Yet, on every measure of success in school except one (percentage of students who score in the top percentiles on SAT’s), boys are less successful than girls. It’s also important to note that different subsets of boys and girls appear to be more vulnerable to school failure, teen pregnancy, dropping out of school, other high-risk behaviors, and some mental illnesses, like eating disorders and self-mutilation.

16.   Both sexes experience surges of testosterone during adolescence—ego, aggression, hostility, and irritability increase. This is normal.

17.   Kids who behave aggressively over a long period of time share four things in common:
·         They are unable to identify their own emotions, ”read” the feelings of others, or empathize with the target of their aggression;
·         They have difficulty predicting the consequences of their actions;
·         Aggression, whether verbal, psychological. Or physical, is the only tool in their conflict toolbox—they don’t know alternative responses; and
·         They tend to attribute hostile or aggressive intentions to new people they encounter.

19.   The job description of all adolescents includes questioning and challenging authority. In particular, students of color, low-income students, newcomer students, and English-language learners may be more likely to distrust adult authority and the intentions of adults in general. Authoritarian (as opposed to authoritative) teachers who demand, command, and use their power over students are more likely to trigger responses of hostility and defiance than efforts to cooperate.

20.   Adolescent “frequent fliers” (kids who experience chronic academic and behavioral difficulties) are least likely to respond positively and productively to punishment. In fact, a punitive approach to discipline (without opportunities for reflection, self-correction, instruction, support, and meaningful consequences and interventions) usually escalates feelings of anger, hostility, alienation, and rejection in already troubled students.

21.   Reluctant, resistant, and failing students who “turn around” cite two factors that enable them to get back on track:
·         A long-term, positive relationship with an adult
·         Learning experiences that are personally meaningful and involve multiple ways of knowing, understanding, and demonstrating what they learn.

22.   The self-esteem movement didn’t do adolescents any favors. Self-esteem cannot be taught or developed through a bunch of activities that encourage students to like themselves. High self-esteem results from genuine attachment to others, a sense of control and power in crucial areas of one’s life, and experiences of mastery and competence. It’s that simple and that daunting. It’s also important to note that students of color who have a strong, positive, ethnic identity tend to have higher self-esteem. We have to expand the opportunities in school where students can experience these essential building blocks of self-esteem.

23.   The most significant factors that determine the frequency of high-risk behaviors among adolescents (i.e., violence, substance abuse, pregnancy, etc.) are
·         Their degree of attachment to school
·         Their level of academic achievement
·         The friends with whom they hang out

24.   Students who work fewer than 20 hours a week or participate in some personally significant school activity do better academically than those who don’t. However, kids who work more than 20 hours a week tend to underperform at school.

25.   By 9th grade the majority of adolescents see themselves as “losers” in the game of school. To be sure, there are developmental factors at work here, as well as years of negative labeling (by self and others), and years of navigating in a very harsh win-lose culture that communicates that “Some of you matter and some of you don’t.” Distressingly, the gap between successful and unsuccessful students actually increases between 9th and 12th grades.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Zulu saying........

              
              'Umuatu ngumuntu naga antu' 

'A person is a person because of other people.' 

 

THE ART OF DECODING.....seeing underneath behavior


On his first visit to kindergarten, while mother was
still with him, Bruce, age five, looked over the paintings on
the wall and asked loudly, 
"Who made these ugly pictures?"

Mother was embarrassed. 
She looked at her son
disapprovingly and hastened to tell him, 
"It's not nice to call the pictures ugly when they are so pretty."

The teacher, who understood the meaning of the
question, smiled and said, 
"In here you don't have to paint pretty pictures. You can paint mean pictures if you feel like it." 

A big smile appeared on Bruce's face, for now he had
the answer to his hidden question: 
"What happens to a boy who doesn't paint so well?"

Next Bruce picked up a broken fire engine and
asked self-righteously, 
"Who broke this fire engine?"

Mother answered,
 "What difference does it make to you who broke it? 
You don't know anyone here."

Bruce was not really interested in names. He
wanted to find out what happened to boys who break toys.

Understanding the question, the teacher gave an
appropriate answer:
 "Toys are for playing. Sometimes they get broken. It happens."

Bruce seemed satisfied.
 His interviewing skill had netted him the necessary information:

 "This grownup is pretty nice. She does not get angry quickly, even when a
picture comes out ugly or a toy is broken. I don't have to be afraid.
 It is safe to stay here." 

Bruce waved good-bye to his mother and went over to the teacher to start his first day in kindergarten.
LSCI Institute Between Parent & Child, Haim Ginott, 1968



Rachael Kessler ... “Teaching Presence”


 In Memory of Rachael Kessler, 1946 – 2010



 Rachael Kessler ... “Teaching Presence”

1. Our capacity to teach with an open heart and to know what closes our heart and what assists us to open it again.

2. Our willingness and ability to hold respectful discipline.

3. Our ability to be emotionally and intellectually present, responsive to the needs of the moment.

4.Emotional Range: our capacity to know, understand and feel comfortable with the full range of human emotions in ourselves and others.

Rachael Kessler ..


Caring and responsiveness does not
need to conflict with high academic
goals.

In fact, it is often the
precondition to improved
achievement.

--R. Kessler



May you experience each day as a sacred gift woven
around the heart of wonder.

~ John O'Donohue ~

(To Bless the Space Between Us)

Re-Ed Principles of Thomas Hobbs...






   l. Life is to be lived now, not in the past, and lived in the future only as a present challenge.

2. Trust between child and adult is essential...

Trust is the glue that holds teaching and learning together .... The first step in the reeducation process is to help the young person make a new and very important distinction that adults can be counted on as predictable sources of support, understanding and affection.

 3. Competence makes a difference, and children and adolescents should be helped to be good at something, and especially at schoolwork.

4. Time is an ally, working on the side of growth in a period of development when life has a tremendous forward thrust.

5. Self-control can be taught and children and adolescents helped to manage their behavior without the development of psychodynamic insight.

6. Intelligence can be taught. Intelligence is a dynamic, evolving, and malleable capacity for making good choices in living.

7. Feelings should be nurtured, shared spontaneously, controlled when necessary, expressed when too long repressed, and explored with trusted others ....

8. The group is very important to young people, and it can become a major source of instruction in growing up.
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9. Ceremony and ritual give order, stability, and confidence to troubled children and adolescents, whose lives are often in considerable disarray.

10. The body is the armature of the self, the physical self around which the psychological self is constructed.
  
11. Communities are important for children and youth, but the uses and benefits of community must be experienced to be learned.

12. A child should know some joy in each day and look forward to some joyous event for the morrow.

There is an extensive literature on anxiety, guilt and dread, but little that is well developed on joy.
We thus go beyond most contemporary psychology to touch one of the most vital areas of human experience.
We try to become skillful at developing joy ....

So...  as you walk around schools.... how much joy to you notice?  How many smiles and do you hear laughter??

If not...  you will know you have much work to do!!!!